Blog-tember: How Do You De-Stress/Take Care of Yourself?

Blog-tember: How Do You De-Stress/Take Care of Yourself?

Truth: I am the type of person who puts other peoples’ needs in front of my own.
Truth: There is absolutely nothing wrong with that.
Truth: Over the past year I realized I haven’t been taking care of myself and once I got back into yoga, I learned the importance of self-care.

Initially, I struggled with the concept of self-care for a while because I have a hard time thinking of myself first, it seems selfish to me. But then I realized it’s the intentions behind what you’re doing that makes something self-centered (or selfish) vs. self-care. The Merriam-Webster dictionary defines self-centered as “concerned solely with one’s own desires, needs, or interests” and that’s not what self-care is.

The Blissful Mind defines self-care as,

activities and practices we engage in on a regular basis to reduce stress and enhance our well-being

I’m learning I can’t fully show up for others if my battery isn’t fully charged or my cup isn’t full (to quote popular sayings when describing self-care). Through this process I’ve learned about some of the different dimensions of self-care so I split my list up into the different ways I de-stress as well as the different ways I practice self-care (and you’ll find some of these things overlap!).

How I De-Stress

  • Have a margarita at the end of the day (if margs are not an option, a glass of wine)
  • Eat something I love: Even if it isn’t the “most healthy” option (like Mexican food, pizza, chocolate, etc.)
  • Do a brain dump: Sometimes it helps see everything I’m stressing about written down so I can start to decide what top priorities are
  • Watch an episode of something I love: Usually Parks & Recreation because it makes me laugh but also Law & Order: SVU or whatever show I’m currently into
  • Take a bath with my favorite bath bombs: I recommend literally anything from Lush
  • Go for a walk: Sometimes stepping away from whatever I’m working on and taking a five minute walk is the best way to reset my mind
  • Dance it out: Thank you for this one, Grey’s Anatomy (see also, this scene because FEELS). I have a “Dance It Out” playlist on Spotify that I listen to when I need a boost!

Ways I Practice Self-Care

  • Treat Yo Self: Treating yourself every once in a while (not excessively) is a great way to practice self-care. Get a mani/pedi or massage, buy a beautiful new candle or indulge in dessert
  • Get away from screens: Read instead or get outside
  • Journal: Whether that’s art journaling or writing in a journal, express yourself in a safe place
  • Yoga: This is also a way I de-stress but getting on my mat and moving my body always makes me feel better
  • Meditate: There are awesome apps for meditation (I mentioned my favorite here) or even googling “guided meditations” pulls up great results
  • Daily affirmations: Recently I’ve been starting my day by writing down a few affirmations to meditate on and focus on throughout the day. Rachel from #dreamcreatedo has awesome lists of affirmations on her blog! (See here, here & here)
  • Get cozy: I love putting on yoga pants + a comfy t-shirt and wrapping up in my softest blanket.
  • Talk to a loved one: Meet up to talk face to face or call someone you trust (98% of the time, I call my mom).
  • Go to bed early: Sometimes embracing #grandmastatus is the best way to take care of yourself.
  • Say no: If you don’t want to do something, say no. (Still working on this myself)
  • Listen to favorite music: That album/artist/playlist that always makes you feel better? Put that on.

What are some ways you de-stress and practice self-care? I hope these lists help inspire you to practice self-care this weekend, you deserve it!

 

Blog-tember: 5 Things That Bring Me Joy

Blog-tember: 5 Things That Bring Me Joy

I’ve never joined a link up before BUT after hearing about this from Rachel and checking out the list of prompts (a little late), I decided to join in for a few.

So, even though I am officially seven days late, here is my first post for Blog-tember 2016.

5 Things That Bring Me Joy

  1. The ocean: Specifically, the Outer Banks. I am that cliche girl who is obsessed with the beach/ocean. I could write about the ocean for forever. I could go on and on about the healing I’ve found in its salty waters. The Outer Banks has a special place in my heart because that’s the beach I grew up at and that’s where my family’s beach house is located.
  2. Music: I love how passionate artists are. I love being able to hear music. I love being able to read music. I love being able to participate in music by singing or playing piano. I love how music can easily bring people together. I love the experience of live music, especially the joy that comes with seeing your favorite band perform live (even if it is the 15th time you’ve seen them live).
  3. Dogs: I’ve never had a dog but the joy I’ve received from other people’s dogs is insane. I’m particularly obsessed with pugs, but all dogs bring me joy. Sometimes I don’t think humans deserve dogs because they’re so good to us. (Also, dog memes)
  4. Laughter: Specifically, uncontrollable laughter that makes you cry and your abs ache. True, wild laughter is the best kind. I love watching people experience this and I absolutely love losing myself to laughter.
  5. Yoga: Joy is just one of the benefits I get from moving my body with my breath.

I found this prompt to be surprisingly challenging! In the sense that once I got started talking writing about the things that bring me joy, I found it hard to stop and keep the limit of five. This seems like something I should start practicing at least once a day to help cultivate joy & gratitude on a daily basis!

What are five things that bring you joy?



Click here to link back to the 2016 Blog-tember Challenge!

 

September Goals

September Goals

Lately, a lot of people have been asking about my goals and how I’m working towards those goals. I’ve been searching for ways to write everything down and keep myself accountable, but have noticed a lot of bloggers post about their monthly/yearly goals as a good way to keep themselves accountable.

In college, instead of doing a New Year’s Resolution, which I generally dislike and don’t necessarily agree with, I did monthly goals instead. The only problem was at the time, I wasn’t breaking my monthly goals up into smaller weekly goals, so I often got overwhelmed by everything I said I wanted to do and never actually did anything. This time, I’m going to create monthly goals and then each week break those down into weekly goals with daily tasks to help complete them. That way, at the end of the month I’m not looking back and kicking myself for not completing or making progress towards goals I had set for myself.

So with that being said, here we go with September.

  • Slowing down: Recently, I’ve felt the need to rush. Let me rush through my inbox to get through all my emails, let me rush through a yoga practice so it can be said and done, let me rush through the grocery store because I hate grocery shopping. I’m rushing everywhere I go trying to cram as many things and events into one day and then at the end of the day I feel scatterbrained and only really accomplished one or two things. Some days, I actually feel out of breath, as if I’ve been literally running from one thing to the next. I haven’t, but in all my rushing and multitasking I’ve forgotten to be mindful of my breathing. Literally rushing, like if I’m running behind or am actually late, also just generally puts me in a shitty mood and there’s an easy solution to that problem- slow down. So for September, I’m going to focus on slowing down. This primarily means I’m going to focus on the task at hand or whatever I’m doing and not try and do five other things at the same time. I’ve been a proponent of multitasking for a long time, but it stresses me out, so I’m going to focus on one thing at a time. This will also help me be more productive.
  • Track my time: To help with slowing down, I’m going to be tracking my time. For work, I use toggl to track how long I’m spending on certain projects. This can also be used in my actual life when I’m on my computer to track how long I’m spending doing various activities. I’ve also been looking for an app for my phone that would track how long I spend on my phone and track my app usage and just downloaded the Moment app today!
  • Break up with the snooze button: I have been in a very serious, long-term relationship with the snooze button since high school and I just think we’re at different points in our lives now and we need to move on. I’m always saying “I was a psych major! I’ve read the studies, I know how bad the snooze button is for your body!” and the few days I do wake up without hitting snooze, I FEEL SO MUCH BETTER! This goal also leads to…
  • Morning routines: The days I hit snooze 10 times and am subsequently running late are the days where my mornings start off rushing and I’m in five different places mentally at once. No more of this. Also no more waking up and immediately checking my email or social media. I want at least 30 minutes of journaling/yoga/meditation time before actually checking my phone.
  • Get involved in Raleigh community: This means volunteering my time, attending networking events and getting out to some of the awesome festivals/conferences that are happening in Raleigh this month! I’m researching local nonprofits to see which ones I want to get involved with, so stay tuned for more about this!
  • Eat actual meals: Aka stop eating crap and calling it “dinner.” No, my mother is a dietitian, I know what I should be eating. Also, stop skipping lunch.
  • #yogaeverydamnday: I hate that my yoga practice has been slipping and I haven’t been as consistent. Doing yoga makes me feel 110% better, always. Even when I’m too tired or too sore from a previous practice. Even when it’s 6 am, I just need to get on my mat. This also applies for meditation. Yes, it’s hard. Yes, it gets frustrating. But yes, I feel better. So at least five minutes of meditation a day!

Friends, help me stay accountable to this! Seriously, text/call/DM/tweet/comment to ask how I’ve been doing with these to help me stay on track! What are some of your September goals?

Raleigh Reflection: Checking It Off

Raleigh Reflection: Checking It Off

Hi September, where did you come from? I hope you’re bringing cooler weather with you.

Over the past month, I’ve been a fairly busy Raleigh explorer! I managed to check off quite a few things from my bucket list (which is also slowly having things added and removed… it probably will turn into a sidebar item instead of just a single post!).

Food

I met up with one of my good friends from JMU at Lilly’s Pizza off Glenwood. She’s also a Raleigh transplant so she was willing to try a new place with me for dinner (Thanks Hannah!). We both heard great things about Lilly’s Pizza, she got rave reviews about their normal pizza from coworkers and I had read quite a few reviews on their gluten free pizza. We both went with pepperoni and while mine was definitely good gluten free pizza, it wasn’t the best gluten free pizza I’ve ever had. But I like that they use local and organic ingredients in their food! Not ruling them out as a gluten free pizza option though, that’s for sure.salted caramel macaron from Lucettegrace

I went downtown during Downtown Raleigh Restaurant Week on the Friday night they were doing Dine + Shop to do some exploring. I managed to stop in Lucettegrace before they closed to get two gluten free macarons! I found out all their macarons are gluten free except for two of the flavors they had that day (I also learned from a friend that macarons are actually supposed to always be gluten free, but sometimes people add wheat to get the right texture). I decided to get Vanilla and Salted Caramel for my first ever macarons! And they were so delicious. I definitely understand what the hype is all about now and I will definitely be back for more.

Chatham Hill Winery wine slushieThe boyfriend and I also went to Chatham Hill Winery last Friday after I discovered it’s not even five minutes from my house. It was a quiet Friday night scene and not really his thing, but I’m still glad we went because they have wine slushies y’all. So Raleigh wine-loving friends, let me know when you want to go and I’m down!

Shopping

The main reason I went downtown for Dine + Shop in the first place was to check out Deco. I fell in love the moment I stepped inside the store. It reminds me of Richmond’s Mongrel with their mix of home goods and quirky gifts and cards. Whenever I go into stores like Deco I always feel like I need to spend hours in the store making sure I look at everything and that’s almost what happened the night I went. The only downside was it’s location in downtown Raleigh and lack of parking… and probably my decision to go check it out on a Friday night.

I also went to Cameron Village one day to check out all the shops and was able to pop in Moon & Lola and The Local Squirrel. The Local Squirrel was a lot smaller than I was expecting but has super adorable home decor items. I’ll probably be back during the holidays for Christmas gifts!

I also stopped at The Streets at Southpoint in Durham while I was out there one day and was floored by the size of that mall. It reminds me of Tyson’s Corner with Short Pump Town Center as an addition… crazy. I stopped in the Paper Source there and also immediately fell in love. I love love love a good paper/stationery store and had to exercise some serious self-restraint not to buy all sorts of new notebooks, pens, stickers, cards… you get the idea. But one of my best friends in RVA and I decided to be pen pals so it looks like I’ll actually be checking out the Raleigh location pretty soon.

Miscellaneous

Last weekend (Aug. 27-28) was Lazy Daze Festival in downtown Cary and even though it was disgustingly hot, the boyfriend and I managed to get out for a little bit to check it out. This year was the 40th year of the festival so they expanded it to a two day event and it was SO COOL. I’m all about finding arts and crafts at farmer’s markets so I love that this festival was all about showcasing artwork/crafts from so many different types of creators. I’m always amazed by what other people create and love just wandering the aisles to see what everyone brought. We didn’t buy anything… but definitely have a few new artists on our radar.


Raleigh has a LOT going on in September so I’m super excited to check out all the new events happening! Raleigh folks, is there anything in particular you think I should check out? Let me know in the comments!

21 Ways I’m Still Adjusting (+ Questions)

21 Ways I’m Still Adjusting (+ Questions)

Since I’ve never left the state of Virginia, I’m finding there are a lot of things I’m still adjusting to and getting used to in Raleigh. So here are 21 ways I’m still adjusting and questions I still have.

  1. Realizing I now live in a different area code and need to stop putting “804” before every phone number I type in, which leads to…
  2. Having to ask people for their area code before adding them as a contact because Raleigh is full of “transplants” (like myself).
  3. Therefore, Raleigh natives are rare people.
  4. Also, making sure I say my area code whenever people ask for my phone number.
  5. Trying to remember my new zip code (every zip code I’ve ever lived in has started with 2, it doesn’t help that this one does as well).
  6. Apple Maps is probably my most used app on my phone at this point.
  7. I check Google Maps on my computer at least twice a day now.
  8. I have no idea how to geographically explain where I’m living in Cary. In Richmond I used to say “oh my neighborhood is about 5 minutes from Short Pump Town Center” or when I lived downtown “Oh I live on Floyd right where 3 Monkeys and Social 52 are on Main.”
  9. I don’t know which Target location is actually closer to me, nor do I know the faster route to get there (even though I’m using my GPS).
  10. Harris Teeter is WAY more expensive than Martin’s. I miss you, Martin’s.
  11. I don’t know which grocery stores carry all of my favorite gluten free brands & food. Which has led me going to Kroger, Harris Teeter and Whole Foods all in one very long day.
  12. Gas is more expensive.
  13. And on that note, I don’t know which gas stations are generally cheaper than the others.
  14. I cannot for the life of me figure out I-40 and 440. To get to downtown Raleigh I take I-40 West towards Durham and then get on 440? To get to Holly Springs or Fuquay-Varina I take I-40 East? Richmond’s interstates make way more sense to me.
  15. Raleigh has a beltline? Every time I hear someone mention it I only think of Washington D.C. (which is technically the beltway).
  16. Also, how do people pronounce the “Varina” in Fuquay-Varina in Raleigh? I’ve heard probably three different variations and only one of them is like how Richmond says Varina.
  17. In neighborhoods or apartment complexes if you are parking on the street, it doesn’t appear to matter which way your car is facing or what side of the street you’re parked on? (Really having a hard time with this one since people in my neighborhood in Richmond used to literally get tickets for being parked the wrong direction on the street)
  18. “Half and half” = half sweet tea, half unsweet tea (never heard this term used in Richmond before)
  19. Left turns at intersections have 4 options: red, yellow, yellow blinking left arrow, green. Yellow blinking left arrow = go, but yield to oncoming traffic (instead of all green meaning yield to oncoming traffic and a green left arrow meaning turn left).
  20. No front license plates.
  21. Networking in Richmond = “Where did you go to high school?” Networking in Raleigh = “So what brought you to Raleigh? Who do you know here?”

Raleigh friends, got any tips for figuring some of this out? Let me know! I’m sure I’ll get the hang of it soon, but until then, I’ll be using my GPS to get anywhere… and even then will probably still get lost.

How I Decorated My Apartment: Gallery Walls

How I Decorated My Apartment: Gallery Walls

Ever since I was a kid I’ve always had bulletin boards overflowing with things I wanted to save and look at every day. Whether that was pages ripped out of magazines, art work my talented friends had done or even cards and letters, it seemed like I never had a bulletin board big enough to hold everything I wanted to show. I also wasn’t allowed to just randomly start taping things to my wall or put holes in my wall in middle school so bulletin boards were the best way to go. In high school, I ripped out editorial pages or ads I found particularly beautiful from Elle and Vogue and started taping them to the back of the door to my room and my closet door (my mom was not so thrilled about this when she discovered it). Then in college I discovered the magic of Command strips so I could decorate my dorm room.

It makes sense then that gallery walls piqued my interest once I started renting apartments. Though I never made one in my college apartment, once I moved into an apartment in the Fan downtown, I decided it was time. I had some frames I knew I already wanted to hang and then I began looking for other pieces to add to my collection. Through my friend Rachel, I discovered Amber Thomas’ etsy and fell in love. I contacted Amber about a couple ideas I had and she created three custom watercolor paintings that I adore. The obvious next step was to go to Pinterest to figure out how to actually hang a gallery wall. I have two methods of creating a gallery wall that I thought I would share with you all today!

Method 1: The “Right” Way

Through my research I found this article about how to hang a gallery wall the “right” way. It definitely helped me, but some of the steps I skipped or were a little too tedious for me. But I took it and created a modified version that I’ve found super helpful.

Gather Supplies

How to make a gallery wall

First, figure out everything you want to hang. If you have prints or art work that need to be framed, figure out the dimensions and hit up a craft store (or, if you’re like me, ask your mom if you can use some of the 50 empty frames she has in the attic). Once you have everything you want to frame, make sure you have these supplies:

  • Hammer
  • Picture hanging hooks/straight nails
  • Command hooks/command strips (optional, but good if you don’t want to put holes in your wall or you discover halfway through hanging everything that some of your frames aren’t actually meant to be hung on the wall)
  • Kraft paper (I found this kind at Target and the dispenser box is super handy)
  • Painter’s tap (or washi tape works great too!)
  • Pencil/marker
  • Level (optional, but really helpful if you can’t stand crooked pictures like myself)

Layout

I usually start by laying out everything I want to hang on the floor to get the general outline. This is a good time to play around with what you want to be your “central” piece or what you want the focal point of the wall to be.

Kraft Paper Outline

Next, I used the craft paper to start tracing my frames and cutting out the shapes to actually tape on the wall before putting any holes in the wall. At first, I thought this was incredibly tedious and was honestly going to skip this step in my apartment in Raleigh, but then I realized my middle point wasn’t actually the true middle. Once I cut out all the “frames,” I labeled each one so I knew which frame I was actually hanging. So for example, I have a print that my roommate Lizzie had gotten me for my birthday of Snow White and the Seven Pugs, so I wrote “snow & pugs” on that piece of kraft paper.

Tape It Up

how to create a gallery wall in your living room

Once I’ve got all my frames mocked up with kraft paper, I go ahead and start taping those pieces up on the wall to make sure the layout I created on the floor actually looks good on the wall and in the space I’ve picked.

Some wall space I recommend for a gallery wall:

  • Above your bed
  • Living room: above the couch, above a mantle
  • Dining room: if you’ve got a lot of wall space you aren’t sure what to do with

Hang It!

living room gallery wall

After all that prep work, now you can finally hang your frames! The article I mentioned earlier suggests marking the kraft paper with the spot of where you actually want the nail to go and nailing directly into the kraft paper and then tearing the kraft paper off the wall once the frame is hung. I tried this in my apartment in the Fan, it was not so easy for me. A lot of the time, I would mark the nail hole and then the frame would hang lower than I expected and messed with the spacing of each frame. And the kraft paper was a little stronger than I anticipated and didn’t come off the wall all that easily. In my apartment in Raleigh, I taped the kraft paper up to make sure it looked centered and balanced on the wall above my couch before putting nails in the wall.

Method 2: Wing It

I’ve had everything I want to hang in my apartment in Raleigh laying on my living room floor since the week I moved in. I decided I needed to actually just hang some things without thinking about it and go from there.

For example, I have a mantle in my apartment (!!! Very excited about this) and the empty space above it was bothering me, so I just hung my Salvador Dali inspired clock above the mantle and decided to work around it (also, I didn’t have a clock in the living room and it was starting to drive me insane). Since some of my frames are just standing frames, I decided I would set them on the mantle and work around them and the clock to create a simple gallery wall there.

workspace inspirationIn my bedroom, I had an empty wall above my desk and since I’ve actually been using my desk for it’s intended purpose since I moved, I decided I needed to hang something there. But for this space, I didn’t want it to be anything framed. I wanted the space to resemble more of an inspiration board since I’ve been doing a lot of work there. Since I didn’t really want anything to be permanent, I started looking for other ways to hang things. That’s when I discovered this magnetic hanging system and it is SO COOL. So instead of measuring everything out, I just took a few pieces I knew I wanted to hang and stuck the magnet stickers on the wall and then hung up my prints. I think this is a super cool way to have a system of hanging things that you can easily switch out, like you would switch out items on an inspiration or vision board.


I absolutely love creating gallery walls and they aren’t as daunting as they seem once you decide to go for it. I hope this helped give you a few decorating/gallery wall ideas! Do you have any tips and tricks for creating gallery walls? Share them in the comments below!

Weekend Escape: Charleston, SC

Weekend Escape: Charleston, SC

Last weekend I had the awesome opportunity to go to Charleston for an easy weekend escape. I had never been to Charleston before but have always heard nothing but amazing things about the city, especially from friends who have moved down there after college.

We stayed about 20 minutes outside of downtown Charleston, which was nice so we were a little farther out from crowds and what not but were still able to easily get into the city to explore. I was surprised to learn how close places like Kiawah Island, Seabrook Island and Folly Beach are to downtown Charleston. Usually when I think of Charleston, I think of the historic downtown area like where Rainbow Row or King Street are, not so much the places like Mount Pleasant or Summerville.

Friday night we went into downtown to explore King Street and eventually decided on a place to eat off Market Street. We stumbled upon an outdoor night market after getting ice cream at Kilwin’s and it was so cute! It kind of reminded me of the flea market since it was mostly art and jewelry.

We turned in early on Friday night because Saturday we got up and left for Kiawah at 8:30! It took about an hour to get to Kiawah which didn’t feel long at all since the drive is so incredibly beautiful. Once we were on the island it took about another 20-30 minutes to get to Ocean Course where Nick and his dad were playing golf. I was so blown away by Kiawah’s beauty by this point, I didn’t know what to expect at Ocean Course. And oh my god was it beautiful.

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Let me preface this by saying I haven’t actually been to that many golf courses in my life but Ocean Course is by far the nicest and most beautiful course I have been to. It may be because it’s literally right on the beach and the clubhouse overlooks the ocean, but I was stunned. Initially I assumed the beach wasn’t a public beach, but it turns out it was! And I’m not sure many people knew about it because I basically had a private beach the entire day. It was so beautiful and the actual beach seemed so wide compared to the skinner beaches with dunes I’m used to in the Outer Banks! And the ocean was so warm. It was like I was back in the Caribbean with how warm the water was.

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View of the clubhouse from the beach!

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After too much sun, we headed back to Charleston for dinner at Poogan’s Porch. I absolutely love all the southern charm and houses in Charleston and Poogan’s Porch is so adorable. And also, delicious. They were able to make basically any meal on the menu gluten free, so I got the shrimp and grits and it was by far the most delicious shrimp and grits I’ve ever had. I devoured my dinner. After dinner we made our way to Rainbow Row to walk around the historic area and admire the beautiful houses and waterfront!

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The only problem with Charleston in August is the unbelievable heat and humidity. I’m sure it doesn’t help that we seem to be stuck in a never-ending heat wave, but man, the humidity in Charleston is unreal. Way worse than Richmond and Raleigh.

But other than that, it is a gorgeous city and we will definitely be back. I can only imagine how nice Charleston is in the fall!

Stop & Do Yoga Among the Roses

Stop & Do Yoga Among the Roses

As I continue to put my roots down in Raleigh, I’ve been keeping an eye out for upcoming community yoga events in order to spend more with other Raleigh yogis.

At 6:30 am last Friday, I joined Happy + Hale and Carrington Jackson and 200 fellow yogis in the Raleigh Rose Garden for sunrise yoga. Ever since doing a 30 day yoga challenge in April, I’ve come to love sunrise yoga even though I am in a serious relationship with my snooze button. I knew going to this event would help me wake up and start my day on the right foot. And I loved that it was being held at the Raleigh Rose Garden, a place I wanted to visit from my Raleigh bucket list. I also knew there would be other yogis there, but I wasn’t sure how many. The event reminded me of Project Yoga Richmond’s Saturday Salutations, but that event is usually at 9 am, not 6:30.

I was floored by how many people were already there when I arrived at 6:30 and how many people continued to come even after that! Carrington started practice by telling us to hug at least one person we didn’t know. This caught me off guard, most teachers start by asking you to go inward and focus on yourself, not those around you. Carrington focused the class on the community that was there and to love, not just that specific community, but everyone.

Normally, I would have wanted to go to an event like this with someone so I wasn’t by myself. But I knew that I needed to go to this event so I could experience the Raleigh yoga community and as we continued to move through the practice I felt so connected. At one of my last classes at Shockoe Slip Yoga in RVA I told the teacher that one of the biggest things I was going to miss when I moved was the community at SSY. I was so worried that I wouldn’t be able to find a similar community when I moved to Raleigh. But after Friday, I realized how wrong that is.

I left Friday morning feeling energized with love and connection to so many others that came out to practice at 6:30 on a Friday morning. It makes me excited to continue to grow in this community and get to know more people in the community. The next Sunrise Yoga will be September 9 in City Plaza and I cannot wait to do yoga on Fayetteville Street with hundreds of other yogis again.

So, while this week is getting started and things are crazy because it’s Monday, remember to stop and smell the roses. Or better yet, do yoga among them.

 

Raleigh Reflection: Week One

Raleigh Reflection: Week One

It’s kind of hard to believe I’ve only been here for one full week because I feel like I’ve already done so many things! So here’s a quick recap of everything that happened during my first week in Raleigh.

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Unpacking + Decorating

Slowly but surely, I’m almost unpacked. At this point, I only have about 2.5 boxes left. Which honestly is impressive because when I moved to downtown Richmond last August, I never fully unpacked and had a huge box sitting in our extra room for the entire year. So, progress is happening here.

Also, decorating! The best part… once you get everything unpacked and you actually can find things! This is happening at a much slower rate, but that’s okay!

Raleigh Bucket List

So I was actually able to cross a few things off my Raleigh bucket list in the past week!

Downtown Farmer’s Market

Last Wednesday I ventured into downtown Raleigh to see the downtown farmer’s market and was completely blown away at how big downtown Raleigh actually is. I know it’s a bigger city than Richmond, but I wasn’t expecting it to remind me so much of Washington D.C. or almost Philadelphia. I was slightly overwhelmed because I had no idea where I was going and kept getting turned around, but managed to snag street parking a block away from the farmer’s market (thanks for that skill, RVA!). Overall, the downtown farmer’s market wasn’t what I was expecting. I thought there might be more flower stands or homemade goods, but it was mostly just food and produce for sale. Which makes sense, especially since I went right around lunch time and it seemed like it would be an awesome place to go if you worked downtown and wanted to get some fresh food.

Yoga at Blue Lotus

After the farmer’s market, I headed over to Blue Lotus for a free community yoga class. Also located downtown, Blue Lotus has a beautiful open space for yoga. The teacher was incredibly welcoming and I was able to pick up The Heart of Yoga in their little boutique. From my apartment, it’s about a 20 minute drive and since I like getting to classes at least 10 minutes early to get settled, I would definitely need to devote at least 30 minutes to just getting to the studio. But I’m probably going to keep popping in to check out the environment and take some other classes!

BREW Coffee Bar

BREW Coffee Bar at Cary TheaterI stopped in BREW at Cary Theater Friday afternoon to get some work done after running a few errands. I had already had coffee that morning and it was so hot out… I opted for Hibiscus Berry Iced Tea. It was definitely more refreshing than coffee would have been, especially since I’m not a fan of iced coffee. I wasn’t a huge fan of the shop itself, it’s located on the first floor and had a small sitting area and was fairly full when I stopped in. I’m definitely keeping this one on the list to try again to get actual coffee.

State Farmer’s Market

State Farmer's Market Restaurant, Raleigh NCOn Sunday, I checked out the State Farmer’s Market with my boyfriend’s mom. We had brunch (technically, since we both ordered breakfast) at the State Farmer’s Market Restaurant and then checked out the actual market. It’s pretty cool that this farmer’s market is open all year, seven days a week! I’m used to the farmer’s markets in Richmond only being open on specific weekends during the month with limited hours, so it’s nice to know this one is always available! I was looking for flowers to put in my apartment, but the floral arrangements were much bigger than I was expecting. But we came away with peaches, corn and tomatoes so it was still a successful trip in my book!

Miscellaneous Wanderings

Sugarland gluten free cupcake, Raleigh NCSaturday night I had a craving for cupcakes so after doing a little research, I drove to Cameron Village to get gluten free cupcakes from Sugarland! I was surprised, and excited, to see they were open until 11 pm and decided to give them a try. I got two “Thrilla in Vanilla” cupcakes and they were delicious. A lot of bakeries in Richmond put a ton of super heavy frosting on their cupcakes which is great and all, but a girl can only handle so much sugar. Sugarland’s gluten free cupcakes did not have this problem. They were the perfect ratio of cupcake to frosting. I’ll definitely be back.

 

I also dropped in to Bliss Body Yoga for a restorative class on Sunday afternoon to relax and center myself for the week ahead. As a JMU alumna and lover of all things purple, I was a little too excited to see that all of their props were purple. I’m talking bolsters, blocks, straps (were actually mostly grey, but with only purple accents), blankets, eye pillows and studio yoga mats were all purple! Going to a new yoga studio for the first time is always a little nerve wracking, because a website can only tell you so much. But seeing all the purple made me feel at home and more at ease since I associate purple with the happiest place on earth. I can’t wait to go back and try out their other classes!


All in all, I’ve had a pretty amazing first week in the City of Oaks. I hope you all had a wonderful and productive, but also relaxing, weekend! If you’re a Raleigh native, have any places you think I should check out and add to my bucket list? Let me know in the comments below!

The Raleigh Chapter

The Raleigh Chapter

Well, it has officially happened. I am officially a resident in the City of Oaks instead of the River City!

Leaving Richmond was bittersweet, but I’m excited to see what Raleigh has to offer and do ALL THE EXPLORING! There is so much to do here, it’s overwhelming (in a good way). I decided to make a bucket list of all the different things I want to do/visit/see in the Raleigh-Durham area. Since I’ve read about so many different things through the RDU Baton, Offline and recently, the Raleigh Agenda that I decided to categorize the list to make it a little easier for myself to stay organized!

Outdoors/Parks

  • Visit Dorothea Dix
  • Watch sunrise/sunset at Boylan Bridge
  • Visit Pullen Park
  • Visit NC Museum of Art Park
  • Visit William B. Umstead State Park
  • Raleigh Municipal Rose Garden
  • Visit Arboretums
  • See Escher Murals
  • Visit Eno River State Park
  • Visit Jordan Lake
  • Visit Raleigh’s Hidden Azalea Gardens
  • Do the DT Raleigh Walking Tour
  • Visit Neuse River Trail
  • Visit Crabtree Falls

Food

  • Lucettegrace
  • Lilly’s Pizza
  • Videri Chocolate Factory
  • Living Kitchen
  • Attend Raleigh Food Truck Rodeo
  • Happy + Hale
  • Buku
  • The Friction Kitchen
  • The Pit
  • Go back to Gravy
  • Cafe de los Muertos
  • 42nd Street Oyster Bar
  • Irregardless Cafe
  • The Flying Biscuit Cafe

Coffee Shops

(listed separately from food because while I may not be able to eat some of the food they have, I can drink all the coffee/tea!)

  • Rise Biscuits & Donuts
  • Torch Coffee Roasters
  • Raleigh Raw
  • Jubala Coffee
  • BREW Coffee Bar
  • The Third Place
  • Joule Coffee
  • Yellow Dog Bread Co
  • Sola Coffee Cafe

Shopping

  • The Local Squirrel
  • Gypsy Jule
  • Furbish
  • Deco
  • Gather Goods Co.
  • Edge of Urge
  • NOFO at the Pig
  • Moon & Lola

Museums

  • North Carolina Museum of Art
  • North Carolina Museum of Natural Sciences
  • CAM Raleigh

Things To Do

  • State Farmer’s Market
  • Yoga at Blue Lotus
  • Wine and Design class
  • Go to a trampoline arena
  • Take an aerial class at Cirque de Vol
  • NC State Fair
  • Go to the Maker’s Market

I’m sure this list will grow as I hear about new things happening and as I get to know the city better. But for now, here’s to new adventures!